Just going thru a tough time at the moment. So my sister dropped the bombshell last week that she is pregnant. From my last post you will see all the issues I have with that, especially about her relationship.
Anyway she rang last night & I was out having a fabulous dinner with my work girls. However Mr W spoke to her. She had so many issues. She wanted to know while I hadn't rang her (Well because I decided to give myself some space for me to digest the situation). Also she said that her announcing that she was pregnant was suppose to be the best day of her life but she left our parents extremely upset. I do totally get that, if or when we announce we are having a baby I would hate for someone to rain on my parade.
BUT she just doesn't get it. She doesn't understand how she announced it was like I felt like I ambushed. She doesn't get the heartache & disappointments we have lived for the last 9 years. Anyone getting pregnant is like a slap in the face, it's just another reminder we aren't there yet. She doesn't get that how can I be happy for her when I know her relationship is an unhealthy one, which she will bring an innocent baby into. I know she is having a baby for all the wrong reasons - maybe this is not my place to judge... God knows, I'm confused.
I haven't spoken to her myself yet as I said before, giving myself some space to digest the situation. But I don't know what to do. I don't know what to say. I love my sister & want her to part of my life going forward but it's just a tough situation.
Any advice would so muchly appreciated. Have you had to deal with anything similar.